For those that are in a significant, special or any relationships for that matter, it is important to share and express your feelings, opinions and experiences. By opening the door to your intimate feelings and thoughts, you allow the transformation required to transcend the relationship to the next level.
Many of us have experienced tumultuous relationships where sharing information of our inner self might not have been beneficial and because of these past experiences, we may now feel that in sharing personal feels much of the same that was previously experienced will occur again.
In order to activate the bonding in a new relationship however, it is important, even though we may feel uncomfortable or worried that we may get hurt or used in some way again, that we share our inner self in order that our relationships not stagnate and eventually disintegrate because of this fear. We have to realize that conditions from a past relationship no longer hold true for our new ones. These new relationships undoubtedly will offer a new definition of what a meaningful relationship should look like.
Fear is often an offshoot of past experience and we learn through our mistakes as we move along in life, but we have to allow ourselves to open up again in order to move forward within important relationships. This new relationship may provide us with something that we have never experienced before and moving to the next level is often what is required in order to go deeper into this new union.
This is something new and may not reflect anything of the past in any way. It may actually provide us with a comfort level that we have never experienced before. We must let ourselves go a little. Weigh out all the facts and move forward with the objective of creating a loving experience shared by two souls. We are not thrown together by chance. Everyone we meet that becomes significant has a purpose and we have chosen beforehand to come together to grow and merge our individualities into a more full, single entity so to speak.
It can be difficult and sometimes frightening to move forward and open ourselves up to the unearthing of the secrets that are buried within. When the time is right and we have had time to look deep into our prospective mates and our instinct and gut draws us to this individual, take the chance. We might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome.
If we never take chances in life, we will simply live our sheltered lives with regrets. We can never grow without stepping forward out of our comfort zones. We must always listen to our gut and that quite voice within. Yes, there is always a risk in each thing that we do in life, but there is also an opportunity that life will move forward in a new and wonderful direction and it will hold rewards beyond our present imagination. The choice is ours.
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