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At times it seems as though we have to be backed into a corner before we are capable of recognize an alternative route to the one we are currently on, or unexpectedly, out of the blue, an alternative route becomes visible. More often than not, we feel lost and somehow lacking in direction before we have this recognition, and we accept the new course of action only because we feel there is no other choice.

When the choice has been made, we do not understand why we never thought of or recognized that alternative earlier. This make us realize that we were so enveloped or consumed by our previous focus and what we thought were inescapable conditions that we were blind to new ways of looking at things. This is an easy habit to slip into and one we should certainly guard against.

Why did the new choice come to light? Really, the answer to this is not important. It is only important to recognize our habits and to work to changing them. Nonetheless, no matter why we have changed our focus, we now have new options and different paths to take if we so choose. With this new realization, life’s circumstances seem to change in an instant and our outlook, as a whole, can go through an equal transformation.

Things often seemed to have to reach a very bleak point, before we release control because we feel there was no other alternative. Once we have released, recognized and moved forward with this new choice, suddenly everything changed. This proves that we sometimes have to look at things from a different perspective and then new doors will open.

Do NOT “allow” negativity to enter into the equation. There are always options. Sometimes that option is simply to let go of control. Whatever the options, we have to be open to them. In the worst of conditions, things can magically turn themselves around. Do not become dismayed and tarnished by life’s events. They are events; they are never a reflection of you.

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