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The darkest moment is always just before the dawn.

Life’s circumstances always rebound and although the course we take is not always the course we had hoped for, our true journey will transform us and teach us the lessons that we need for our future.

Our expectations may have us asking “How long do I have to wait?”

Truly believe that there is nothing in this life that we are not strong enough to or capable of overcoming unless, of course, we give up and allow our attitude to sink below the positive points of our current learning experience. If we actually want to succeed, giving up, in reality, is not an option. If we can recognize the constant nagging voice that keeps us in our darkest moments, and know that voice for what it truly is, ego, than we can stop identifying with it and its message. Recognize it for what it is.

Nothing can hurt us more in life than the relentless ego and people get so lost in its deceitful message. They believe the message to be true and to be a part of them. When we allow ourselves to bask in the sorrows of ego’s message, we completely identify with its message and making it our own. It is then that we become blind and numb to the truth. We become overwhelmed because we forget how to turn it off and are bombarded with ego’s constant defiling message that drowns hope.

Recognize negativity. Put ego in its proper place. Channel your thoughts in a different direction. No matter how hard, force yourself to see the positive in each and every event you experience. In the beginning, it will be hard to find that one small positive spark but if you look deep enough, even in the most bleak moments, there is a shred of light.

There will be moments that each of us are faced with life changing decisions. All change can be difficult if we do not let go of the passed to move into our future. Our positive decisions can open doors of opportunities unlike that which we have ever know. It is frightening to release our grip on the past even if the things and people of our past no longer serves us but we do have the strength to let go so that we can reach forward to grasp our future.

Have faith in the process and have faith in yourself. Know that we are expanding and growing especially during the most uncomfortable circumstances. Our attitude forms a large portion of our reality. If we focus on those things that we do not enjoy or like, our life will feel as though it is heavy and stagnant. If we focus on the blessings and joys in our life, life will feel expansive and joyful. When we change our attitude, we change our circumstances. These changes will require action on our part. If we are positive, we will have faith in ourselves and in the events in our life.

Change is inevitable. If we fight it, we create discord. We will survive and be stronger and more resilient after each life lesson. Stay true to yourself, not your ego.

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