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REACTIONS IN THE MOMENT

Jul 3

At times, we speak out of turn or say things that even before we finish the sentence, we wish we had not said.

Likely on some level, the words needed to be said. Perhaps, it was the best way, at least at that moment, to get your point across. Often, when we leave things unsaid for an extended period, when we eventually convey our wishes or feelings, they are said in a less than desirable fashion.

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away. Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment! — Reactions in the Moment

Whatever has been said cannot be unsaid, and you must accept the repercussions of your actions or words. Clarifying or explaining ourselves is a good idea and an apology is essential.

We can’t change what has been said or done in the past so, if for example, our words were cutting due to holding on to unshared feelings, there is a valuable lesson in this event. Do not let feelings or preferences go unsaid. It is much better to deal with them in a calm and controlled situation than to express them in the heat of the moment and then regret your expression or actions.

Reactions in the moment happen occasionally to everyone. If, however, your reactions are continually uncontrolled perhaps a deeper dive into why is warranted. Be honest with yourself, accept responsibility for your actions and make the necessary changes where changes are required, so that the next time you are confronted with events or the urge to react, you can take control of your actions in the moment and deal with them in a meaningful and productive manner.

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away. Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment!

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THERE IS NO TOMORROW

Jun 26

Take advantage of the moment and move ahead with confidence. If it takes a little research, then do a little research. Make time where needed. There’s no tomorrow. This moment is the only one guaranteed. Do not have regrets! — There Is No Tomorrow

Tomorrow is never guaranteed! So how should that influence us?

Many of us may openly admit to being procrastinators. We put off what could be done today because there is a good chance that it can wait until tomorrow. We plan ahead, and with that plan in mind, we promise ourselves that we will push ahead when the time is right. This creates a problem. The time may never be right in our minds and whatever we would like to achieve but put off, for whatever personal reason we may come up with, we lose the chance to fulfill that goal and whatever it can provide to us.

If you know you have to set aside a specific time to accomplish what you want, then set that time aside and make room to get things done. Make a commitment. Take one step forward and initiate action. Once you are moving forward on your goal, what seemed to be a real challenge in your head turns out to be much simpler than we thought.

How much time is wasted conjuring up with excuses as to why we cannot move forward?

It may take more time to come up with multiple excuses than it takes to fulfill your plans.

Some things can certainly wait in our busy schedules, but to make things happen, we need to take action.

In some cases, there is a fear of failure or a sense that it is just too much to attempt in the present moment. In other cases, we lack the knowledge to accomplish our goals or we are simply lazy.

We can find endless reasons why we cannot begin now, so we put things off telling ourselves we can do it later. Yet when we finally decide to act, we get great satisfaction from the work we complete. Why did we wait?

Take advantage of the moment and move ahead with confidence. If it takes a little research, then do a little research. Make time where needed. There is no tomorrow. This moment is the only one guaranteed. Do not have regrets!

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our spring courses have now begun. Watch for announcements for our fall registrations. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

SELF-SUFFICIENCY

Jun 24

When is it appropriate to step aside and stop providing guidance and assistance for those that are in need?

What energies or resources should we put forward to aid those that have been living under harsh conditions on some level or another?

Assistance is essential at times, but we should teach life skills to others so that they can move forward with pride and self-reliance. Give help when help is required in the moment and just as importantly, we should help others to help themselves. We can provide guidance or assistance but at some point, it is important to back off when those who have needed our help are ready to move ahead without our assistance, so they can experience self-reliance.

Challenging conditions are lessons teaching us how to build strength and endurance. These lessons are part of life’s journey and in turn, when the lessons have been learned, we gain strength and knowledge.

Know when to help, and when to bow out and let others move forward on their own. The old say goes “Feed someone a fish and they are fed for the day, teach someone to fish and they are fed for a lifetime”. Self-sufficiency is empowering. — Self-Sufficiency

Know when to help, and when to bow out and let others move forward on their own. The old saying goes “Feed someone a fish and they are fed for the day; teach someone to fish and they are fed for a lifetime”. Self-sufficiency is empowering.

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our Spring courses are underway. Watch for announcements in late summer for registration for our fall courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.