IT'S ALL OR NOTHING

There are times you just have to go for it.

You have spent countless hours contemplating and now you realize that the moment has come for you to advance.  You feel it. It IS the time.

It's All or Nothing

Give it your all and don’t back off, not even for a moment.

For each of us, this focus will be a different one. No matter what the focus, push through any adversity and forge ahead.

You may have been waiting for a long time, and something has held you back.  Was it fear?

Do not step on others to get there. Karma is real. This is not about revenge or getting even, life looks after that. It’s about just reward, doing the right thing, and letting life take you to where you are supposed to be.

Fear can hold you back, but do not let it! 

Move forward armed with information, with positivity and the best intensions. You can do this with or without assistance.

Who will benefit?

Take care of yourself but if you can incorporate benefits for others, that is much more rewarding.  Listen to your intuition. Step forward with hope and compassion.

It is important to pursue your dreams and goals. Are you ready? Get set……go! It’s all or nothing. Give it your all and reap the rewards.

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Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

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HOLD ON TO GRIEF

Hold on to Grief

When we lose someone close to us, it can be hard to move forward. Our “normal” no longer exists. The calendar days may pass by, but the emotional pain can remain. There is no right way or length of time to grieve but there can be emotionally healthier choices to be made.

Some will show no signs of grief possibly from denial or avoidance while others can be frozen in grief.  Some hold on to grief and the pain they are experiencing because it makes them feel as though, somehow, they are staying close to their lost loved one.

Grieving is not a linear process and can be just as much physical as it is emotional.  Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to mourn your loss. 

The mourning process is a time to feel and process our loss but to also adjust to our new “normal” which moves forward without the physical presence of our lost loved one.  The five steps of grief are denial (hope), anger (pointing blame), bargaining (you can’t change places), depression (processing the loss) and acceptance (moving forward in a new way).  The lines between these stages are not defined and can be blurred regularly.

Some individuals can become stuck in any stage of grief. It is hard to be rational when we are engulfed in grief.  We can find ourselves asking questions such as, “Was it something I did?”, “What could I have done to change things?”, “Someone is to blame?”, “Why am I being punished?”, “Why wasn’t it me?” and the list goes on.

Some may push their pain on to others as they do not want to suffer alone, consciously or unconsciously. They take their anger out on the ones they love the most or put up walls to keep others away.

It’s hard to realize, in our depression, that those around us are also affected. We can be very hard on the ones we love the most. They too are grieving their own loss too. Their loss may be connected to your loved one directly or it may be their having to watch you suffering and your loss of participation in their lives. 

Most times, there are no specific reasons for what happens in life.  We can be sideswiped by events.  These experiences can seem very unfair.  On the other hand, we may be expecting the loss, knowing that it is coming but when it actually happens, you are not prepared though you thought you would be.

Accept that we cannot change the past, but we can certainly learn from the experiences.

No matter what the circumstances around the event, we must make our way through the grieving process. Take the time you need to experience and process but do not live in the past.  Live in the moment.

It is sad to let go and move forward without those you have created this life with. Do not hold on to grief. How wonderful that you have had the opportunity to enjoy and experience life with them, no matter what that length of time may have been.  Celebrate what they shared with you. Thank them for the journey you shared but continue with yours moving forward, living in their honour.  Would they not want this?

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? We are now accepting registration for our Spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com

Visit www.holmastrology.com for more information on Astrology and information on the Astrological charts we offer.

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

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HOLD FAST AND STRONG

Release Fear and Hold Fast and Strong

Hold fast and strong applies to many of life’s important ventures and turning points.  Much will depend on the current situation and the environment within which this can all takes place. 

All important decisions are based on your intensions, and these decisions can affect your life from this day forward.

Relationships can be a perfect example. There may be various reasons for a relationship to be in question.  On the positive side, is a marriage proposal a potential? This can change your life in many ways, some for the better, some quite reasonable and some may be concerning.

On the other hand, your relationship may not be working, which also can be for many reasons.  Is the relationship worth the work to repair it? If the pros outweigh the cons, then start doing the work.  What might be the first step in this repair journey?

In all situations and scenarios, it is important to reconsider what it is that may unfold as you make plan and make these important decisions. We cannot cover every scenario that may present itself, but we must decide based on the information we have at hand.  All decisions can be life-changing. 

Release fear as it can freeze you into inactivity. This is not living; it is existing. As in all life decisions, it is up to you which steps you take. You never truly know where that step may take you.  Make your decision based on what you know after doing your due diligence.  Once the decision has been made, hold fast and strong and take that step. Don’t give in or give up!

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? We are now taking registrations for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

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