'TIS THE SEASON

By adhering to the needs of others, do we lose ourselves in the process?

Do we place value on our personal needs? 

Do we live our lives to only fulfill the needs and wants of others? 

Do we live our lives only to fulfill our own needs and wants?

What have you learned from your responses to these questions? 

Are you living according to what others expect or are living your life with concern for their welfare and peace of mind?

There is a difference.

Tis the Season

We cannot live our lives obeying the requests of others and ignoring our own personal needs in life. As the saying goes, you cannot feed others from an empty cupboard.

The personal rights of others are important and helping others is very rewarding to them and to us. Remember, however, you and your needs are just as important as anyone else’s needs. Life feels much more fulfilling when we share our lives with others but also when we live the life that suits our evolutionary quest. We can certainly combine both.

We learn from others and their personal experiences, but there is also value in recognizing and fulfilling our personal needs and wants.

Observe the rights of others and self. Life is to be shared. We all need to be treated with equality. You and your life are important. We have to find balance.

Tis the season when giving and caring seems to be brought out in the open.  We can live each and every day with the nature of giving, of love and caring for others but for self as well.

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OUR MIND WILL TELL US ANYTHING

Many of us live our lives in worry and fear and are drawn in by thoughts of failure, not being good enough, not living up to our own expectations or the expectations of others, or any other way of thinking that diminishes our value and our life’s experience. 

Recognize that you are not your thoughts; you are the one listening to your thoughts.  Our mind will tell us anything. Our mind can change the story over and over in a blink of an eye. You can either get caught up in the stories, or you can take what is relevant and use it for the benefit of your overall development and experience.

Our Minds Will Tell Us Anything

This is not to say that by ignoring our mind’s chatter that we can escape our life’s lessons and circumstances. Life happens but we can choose how we respond to lessons and circumstances. We can allow them to rule our waking moments (and dreams for that matter), or we can rise above these invasive, non-productive thoughts simply by acknowledging them and then releasing them.

We do not have to be captives of our thought patterns. Recognizing these thoughts and where they are leading you is the first step to changing your focus or perspective.  Your life experience is truly all about perspective.  Your thoughts are something you experience but they are not you.

Take safety measures to remind yourself that you are only the listener. You decide if you hold on to the message or let it go.  Life happens but you are in control of your reaction and your focus. Change your attitude (focus), change your life.

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DECISIVE ACTION

Sometimes life just seems to happen, and we are forced to make quick decisions or act on impulse.  Other times we seem to have time to figure out an action plan but find it difficult to make up our minds on which route to take.  Our decisions can have long lasting consequences and if we make the wrong decision, then what? 

Sometimes we know exactly what must be done but are not sure what our first step should be and when to take it.

Decisive Action

At times, it is not easy taking decisive action. Fear can freeze us in our tracks.  What if we make a mistake?

Making mistakes is human but are they really mistakes? 

Were events meant to go the way they did? 

If they were meant to be, then that was the best lesson for us at the time. These things we think of as mistakes usually take us exactly where we need to go.  By taking no action, we may stagnate.

By waiting for the perfect time, we may miss the opportunity.  What is the perfect time?

This is not to say that we shouldn’t take the time to plan or that we should rush into things because we may never have that chance again. There are times when the time is ripe for action and times when we need to reconsider. 

No matter what the situation, we cannot let fear stand in the way of progress.  Have faith in your convictions and make changes when changes are due.

Take decisive action based on the best information available to you at the moment.  Sometimes you have to decide based on your best interests and sometimes based on being able to help someone else.  You cannot however base your decisions to be a “people pleaser”.   

Make your decision, be committed, and move forward with conviction.

Sometimes any change is better than no change at all.

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