DEVELOPMENTAL DELAYS

The feeling of being at a standstill or even moving in reverse can be perplexing. We can get caught up in thinking we have regressed. We may even feel we are losing the “muscle memory” of things we have learned and this knowledge or ability has run its course and may never return. 

Developmental Delays

Perceived notions can hold us back and actually stop us in our tracks. We can allow our beliefs to hold us captive and stagnated.  

Everything in life is subject to change. There are times when change is extreme and other times, when we are provided an opportunity to review and process. The latter tend to be the more quiet times in life, so quiet that we may feel stagnated.

What seems like a time of inactivity is actually a time afforded to you to review, process, plan, etc. You are not at a standstill. Be sure to take advantage of the time afforded to you. You will only advance when you are ready. Moving ahead too quickly, no matter how it feels or where you think you should be at this time, is not beneficial.

Insight comes in many different forms, at times through experience, through reflection and at other times through different unusual channels, some of which you may not even be aware of. 

Be patient. All valuable lessons include patience. These are not developmental delays; they are times to reflect. You will move ahead when you are ready and no sooner. 

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FREEDOM OF CHOICE

Throughout life there are crossroads, some that lead us into unknown territory.  As we venture forward, we adjust accordingly and cross our fingers that we chose the right road.

Freedom of Choice

Sometimes the choice seems to be out of our hands and other times we give priority to the possible outcomes even though they are not guaranteed. When faced with these choices, it can be challenging due to the unknown.

Our road ahead can be clear and concise or rather dusty because we don’t see the future clearly. We are afraid of making mistakes. We can only base our decisions on what we have experienced in the past

It should be noted that even under the harshest conditions, on some level, these life lessons are meant to be, and learning and then moving forward based on that knowledge is important.

Freedom comes when we commit to our decisions. Our attitude towards those decisions is more important than the actual move itself.  If we spend too much time worrying about the ramifications of these decisions, we only see those things we perceive we should be worrying about, so our positive focus is imperative.

We always need to move ahead after a decision knowing that it will take us to where we are meant to go, no matter where that may be. All things are temporary but essential as these are the important lessons in life.

We have freedom of choice. We gain valuable insight & our attitude plays an important role in our journey.  Don’t become stuck in perceived possibilities. Your choice will take you where you need to go.

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REACTIONS IN THE MOMENT

At times, we speak out of turn or say things that even before we finish the sentence, we wish we had not said.

Likely on some level, the words needed to be said. Perhaps, it was the best way, at least at that moment, to get your point across.  Often, when we leave things unsaid for an extended period, when we eventually convey our wishes or feelings, they are said in a less than desirable fashion.

Reactions in the Moment

Whatever has been said cannot be unsaid, and you must accept the repercussions of your actions or words.  Clarifying or explaining ourselves is a good idea and an apology is essential.

We can’t change what has been said or done in the past so, if for example, our words were cutting due to holding on to unshared feelings, there is a valuable lesson in this event.  Do not let feelings or preferences go unsaid.  It is much better to deal with them in a calm and controlled situation than to express them in the heat of the moment and then regret your expression or actions.

Reactions in the moment happen occasionally to everyone.  If, however, your reactions are continually uncontrolled perhaps a deeper dive into why is warranted.  Be honest with yourself, accept responsibility for your actions and make the necessary changes where changes are required, so that the next time you are confronted with events or the urge to react, you can take control of your actions in the moment and deal with them in a meaningful and productive manner.

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away.  Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment!

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