COMMUNICATION IS A MUST

The ability to speak your mind, to participate in a conversation, to listen to understand what is being shared are key to communicating effectively with others. 

Some people are afraid to open themselves up in case of debate and yet others may take advantage of what they reveal.  Some have insecurities with their intellect and are uncomfortable when open dialogue is required.

At the same time, there are those that love debate and even confrontation.

Communication is a Must

Communication however is not just about speaking. An important key to communicating is listening, truly listening without thinking about what the response is going to be, to give the speaker your undivided attention.

In significant relationships, it is important to be open and discuss life events, even those you may feel insignificant.  It is important to open up to those that matter in life and discuss even the most intimate topics so that together resolutions can be worked out. When we open to conversation about any subject, we are closer to those that we communicate with.

In general conversation, there are individuals that constantly chatter, possibly because of excitement, anxiousness, lack of communication elsewhere, self-importance and the list goes on.  Those that never stop talking can be quite disruptive and need to be reminded that others have important contributions in a conversation as well. 

It is important to know when to let others speak and to give our full attention. It is also important to be heard and to communicate what is important. Listening, sharing and respect are imperative in effective communication. Communication is a must.

What type of communicator are you?

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SELF-COMMITMENT

Does it always seem to be about what others need? 

What about your needs? 

In reality, you always have choices.  You make the decisions in your life and no one else can make them for you.  This does not mean that others or guilt will not influence your decision making. 

Self-Commitment

You can say no when you don’t agree, and at that point, you may have a choice to walk away or agree to disagree. 

We are not suggested that there will not be circumstances in life when you do not have a choice or when something is forced on you. This is when you have a choice to resist or accept especially with your attitude.

You are important and should not always be last when making decisions or choices.  Yes; we may have children and perhaps parents and a partner to concern ourselves with but we also need to look after our own needs and wants. 

To be comfortable in life, you must stand up for your needs.  You matter and your mental and physical health is your responsibility.

It is time to take a stand and ensure your self-commitment. Your peace of mind and your needs must be attended to before you can truly help anyone else. Take a deep look within. Acknowledge your needs and then follow through on them.  You matter!

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our fall course is now underway. Watch for announcements in late Winter for our Spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

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WINDS OF CHANGE

Winds of Change

Just as we experience the changing seasons, there will be times when we ourselves begin to feel the need for change or feel that change is beginning to manifest in our lives.  Sometimes we know that a change is about to occur, and other times, life presents us with the unexpected. It is not always easy to adjust to change but it is essential for our mental and physical wellbeing.  There are certainly times to fight but more frequently there are times when we have to recognize that change is essential and go with the flow.

For example, sometimes a relationship will end, with or without our consent, and we must begin a new life without our partner. Alternatively, we may have been on our own for a great length of time and enjoy the independence, but we meet someone new. We can be concerned with where a relationship may take us. 

We may lose our job or have an opportunity to start a new career.

Sometimes it is an easy adjustment and sometimes not so easy.  Even good change can be taxing.

Some of us are quick to adjust, and some have a very hard time even adjusting to minor changes.  Some are so set in their ways that change, although unpredictable, is so challenging that they will do their utmost to keep things the same at any cost but again, change may come without a choice.

As we move through life, we will go through many different experiences, and adjustment is an essential part of the equation.  We learn to bend and stop resisting change.  Refuse to change can create much unnecessary anguish in life.

It is essential to learn when to stand up and fight for change, and when to ride the waves of change and adapt.  On the winds of change, life will eventually take us exactly where we need to go, with or without our consent.  We learn, we listen, we live, and if we enjoy inner peace, we adjust to accommodate it.

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Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our fall course is now underway. Watch for announcements in late Winter for our Spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

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