OBLIGATIONS AS A PARENT

Obligations as a Parent

Our children are our children regardless of their age.  We will always be Mom or Dad to our kids, although as we age, the gap certainly begins to shrink.  In some cases, our children become our best friends, after all they have been with us since their beginning.

As they mature into themselves, it is important to remember that as we made our way through adversity and learned valuable lessons so will our children.  We are their parents but, at some point, we must step back, trust in the seeds we planted and let them learn through life’s experience and their own judgement.

This can be a very difficult task, as we feel we must advise and help in whatever way we can.  Reassure them that we are always there for them. The lessons they learn through experience are the most valuable and the ones that they remember. 

Do you remember when your parents tried to advise you? 

Most of us felt they were out of touch and interfering.  Your children will likely feel the same way.

We do have obligations as parents and we do our best.

The world they are growing up in is different from the one we grew up in. Life was easier on some levels and also more challenging on other levels.  

Be the example they need. Nothing speaks louder.

Remember you are human. If you made mistakes when they were young, acknowledge the mistakes and then let go.

Every day is a learning experience. Our obligations as a parent is to teach by example and to love and reassure them that we care. They too will make mistakes just as we did. Forgive them and forgive yourself.

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THE MOMENTUM OF LIFE

The Momentum of Life

Today could be one step forward and two steps back. Tomorrow may be full throttle ahead without waver. 

We can learn to go with the flow when needed but there will also be times we must fight tooth and nail because we know it is necessary. 

We can hold ourselves back because of worries.  We fear the unknown but damn it, we move forward anyway.

There are days that the flow is carefree. We enjoy the ride and float with energy because it is taking us exactly where we want to go.  We enjoy what life teaches and wish for more of the same.  In many cases this energy force can carry forward and begin to affect many areas of life in positive terms.  Our focus now becomes more attracted to the good things in life as life seems to present its selves in this way.

Life’s momentum changes over a lifetime many times.  We accept what life sends our way and maneuver our way forward.  Some days are easy. Some other days are battles because we must fight or alternatively we resist, we fear, we hide. 

Do not get overwhelmed. All things pass. Life’s momentum can and will shift. If it is difficult today, know that it will change but learn the lesson in the meantime. If it is smooth-flowing today, appreciate and take time to enjoy.

We walk our road in solitude although others walk beside us.  Focus is everything. The momentum of life is forever changing. Enjoy and appreciate the ride, whatever it may be.

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TO BE OR NOT TO BE

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

“To be or not to be”.  Apparently that is the answer. 

Do you choose to be yourself or are you committed to being what others expect you to be? 

You can be whomever you wish to be and believing this opens the door to exploration of who you are. 

When you meet someone new, do you hide your true self, or do you allow your true self to shine loud and clear?

As we age, we become more comfortable in our own skin. We learn to accept who we are, but we certainly can stay open to making changes.  I have heard some say they don’t give a damn what others think.  Others are quite aware of how they present themselves to others and make changes according to each person they meet.

There can be high expectations under some circumstances. We are on our best behaviours during a job interview, for example.

Some individuals may not clearly understand what we mean when we said “You can be whomever you wish to be”.  The person you wish you could be already exists -- living within.  You wouldn’t recognize these traits or this personality if it did not already exist. Allow these traits to shine through.

If you take an honest, deep look at who you are (in this very moment), and you are comfortable with that person, what needs to change? 

If you take an honest, deep look at who you are and you are not comfortable with that person, why not make some changes?

Be comfortable with YOU!

If you ask ten people to describe who you are, you will get ten different answers.  So do not change to appease other, make changes because you wish to make them for yourself.

To be or not to be is not the question.  To be you, to be comfortable with you is the solution; to be something that someone else wants is out of the question. That is the not to be!

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