IT IS NOT ON YOU

IT IS NOT ON YOU

It is important to take ownership of our actions. In some circumstances, however, the actions of others directly influence those with little or no choice in the matter.

In many cases, it takes two to tango, so the saying goes. If it is two parties taking action or acting out, then both parties need to take responsibility for what has taken hold. 

It is also important to realize that you act for yourself.  It is just as important to recognize that it is not up to you to push someone else to make changes.  They must make their own decisions to take appropriate actions. We cannot force others to make changes to themselves or corrections to their actions. It can be frustrating to watch someone close being hurtful towards others (including you) or themselves.

Sometimes, people shoulder the blame for things they did not do or had no control over. How often do we overthink events and struggle to come up with alternative actions we could have taken to change an outcome that is already in the past (an outcome we had no decision in creating)? 

“If only I had made a phone call that day then Charlie (or some other loved one) may not have been in the car at that precise moment of impact” is a perfect example.  The events of life are not yours to own.

It is not always on you but take ownership when it is. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and choices. Stop blaming yourself when it is not your fault. It’s not on you!

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HOLD FAST AND STRONG

Release Fear and Hold Fast and Strong

Hold fast and strong applies to many of life’s important ventures and turning points.  Much will depend on the current situation and the environment within which this can all takes place. 

All important decisions are based on your intensions, and these decisions can affect your life from this day forward.

Relationships can be a perfect example. There may be various reasons for a relationship to be in question.  On the positive side, is a marriage proposal a potential? This can change your life in many ways, some for the better, some quite reasonable and some may be concerning.

On the other hand, your relationship may not be working, which also can be for many reasons.  Is the relationship worth the work to repair it? If the pros outweigh the cons, then start doing the work.  What might be the first step in this repair journey?

In all situations and scenarios, it is important to reconsider what it is that may unfold as you make plan and make these important decisions. We cannot cover every scenario that may present itself, but we must decide based on the information we have at hand.  All decisions can be life-changing. 

Release fear as it can freeze you into inactivity. This is not living; it is existing. As in all life decisions, it is up to you which steps you take. You never truly know where that step may take you.  Make your decision based on what you know after doing your due diligence.  Once the decision has been made, hold fast and strong and take that step. Don’t give in or give up!

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Are you interested in learning Astrology? We are now taking registrations for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

If you have comments, questions or would like to commission a chart, please send us a message via www.holmastrology.com/contact-us or holmastrology@gmail.com 

Holm Astrology also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

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