LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS

It seems long term relationships are far and few between. 

Long Term Relationships

During the course of a committed relationship, marriage or otherwise, there will be challenges.  The newness of a relationship only lasts so long and then wears off. The excitement begins to settle, and then the true “getting to know each other” actually begins. We become more comfortable in the relationship and our deeper personality traits now surface. This can be unsettling in some cases, and we can let little insignificant or large surprising traits irritate us.

We learn to adapt and accept our differences, or we can challenge and stress over these differences to the point that they may be deal breakers.

Some individuals will learn to adapt and are willing to make changes to themselves, while others may refuse to make any changes as they feel they should not have to change for someone else. 

In relationships, we cannot expect someone to change to suit us. We can only make changes ourselves, either in character, circumstance or attitude.

This can be where some relationships crumble while others gain momentum. At this point, due to acceptance some relationships actually become stronger as love, hard work and acceptance are the backbone of a relationship. There will always be times when the relationship experiences difficulties. The outside world influences everything it touches but if we recognize that the source of irritation is from outside the relationship, the bond can deepen.

For those individuals currently going through one of these phases, recognize that in most cases, a slight change of attitude can make a world of difference.  Acceptance, compassion and support for one another is essential. Most irritants are temporary. Remind yourself to review the circumstances and look at the influence of the events around you.  Illness, family, world situations, finances, worry, fear, anxiety and attitude must be taken into consideration.  These can have profound consequences on relationships. 

After reviewing outside circumstances, you likely will come to realize that your relationship is good but other parts of life may need some adjustments.

For those that are experiencing difficulties in their relationship and have been for some time, be sure to have clear communication. Seek counselling as a professional can offer advice that you may not have thought about. 

Long term relationships take hard work, perseverance, love and compassion. Do not let the stress of outside influences affect your relationships. Do the work needed. Your well-being and the well-being of your relationship is worth it!

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GIVE AND TAKE IN APPROPRIATE PROPORTIONS

Give and Take in Appropriate Proportions

It is important in all relationships (marriage, friendships and even in business) to have a balance of give and take. 

With maybe the exception of a business relationship, we need to feel loved not just needed.  A relationship is based on balance. When we love, we give unconditionally but over time if we feel we carry the weight of the relationship, conditions begin to materialize.

All relationships take effort and hard work from all parties involved.

As they say, “Rome wasn’t built in a day”. 

For many, in the beginning of a relationship, it is pure bliss. As time passes, we begin to show our true self and to see the other party more clearly.  It is only then that we can begin to build a solid foundation for the relationship.

Give and take in appropriate proportions, as this is the cornerstone to all relationships. It takes work to build a solid relationship where you feel loved and valued. Oh, but it is so worth the effort!

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OPEN THE DOOR

Open the Door

Open the door. The energies are ready for transformation…..for an idea to materialize, to manifest. 

Always have faith in the process and believe it can happen to or for you.  Doubt stifles potential.

In the coming days, depending on your readiness and belief structure, the door can open. 

Lunar eclipses are significators of disruption and new beginnings. The energy is now in force from the Pisces Full Moon Lunar Eclipse we experienced a couple of days ago.  Use the energy to your advantage and delve deep into yourself.  Inner structuring is unfolding, and you can apply these energies in areas that need revamping and organizing in life.

Inner working often is coordinated with outside influences and assistance is readily available and easier to access.  Be mindful of what it is you want to achieve or attain.  This is not to say that this is a time to unleash the power of positive thinking, because any time is the time to unleash positive thinking. This is, however, a time to put into practice what helps you achieve what you set out to do.

Inner work is generally required, but an honest look is certainly needed, or inner changes cannot take hold.  Be gentle with yourself but push ahead.  Do what needs to be done and advance.  Strive for what is right for you without any influence from others.  This is personal in nature.

Open the door to transformation. A good attitude, focused expectations and forward motion is what is required.  Make this a memorable time for advancement.  Use your energies appropriately.

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