COMMUNICATION IS A MUST

The ability to speak your mind, to participate in a conversation, to listen to understand what is being shared are key to communicating effectively with others. 

Some people are afraid to open themselves up in case of debate and yet others may take advantage of what they reveal.  Some have insecurities with their intellect and are uncomfortable when open dialogue is required.

At the same time, there are those that love debate and even confrontation.

Communication is a Must

Communication however is not just about speaking. An important key to communicating is listening, truly listening without thinking about what the response is going to be, to give the speaker your undivided attention.

In significant relationships, it is important to be open and discuss life events, even those you may feel insignificant.  It is important to open up to those that matter in life and discuss even the most intimate topics so that together resolutions can be worked out. When we open to conversation about any subject, we are closer to those that we communicate with.

In general conversation, there are individuals that constantly chatter, possibly because of excitement, anxiousness, lack of communication elsewhere, self-importance and the list goes on.  Those that never stop talking can be quite disruptive and need to be reminded that others have important contributions in a conversation as well. 

It is important to know when to let others speak and to give our full attention. It is also important to be heard and to communicate what is important. Listening, sharing and respect are imperative in effective communication. Communication is a must.

What type of communicator are you?

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SWORN TO SECRECY

Sworn to Secrecy

Trust and willpower are two key elements when being sworn to secrecy. You must know that you have the willpower to honor the wishes of the individual who trusts you.

There are times when what you know can cause harm to someone else and in some cases change their lives forever.  Let’s use a married couple for example. We are open and bear our deepest, darkest secrets to our partner. Even if the partnership falls apart, I personally believe it is our obligation to retain our partnership secrets as such. Divorce should not steal our integrity no matter how hurt or blindsided we may be.

There are also times that what we have learned needs to come to the surface because keeping it hidden and away from those that need to know can harm them as well. 

When sworn to secrecy, it takes deep contemplation and understanding to know when it is not acceptable to share and when it is essential to speak up.

For those asking for secrecy, it is important that they realize secrecy can harm them both physically and mentally.  Keeping a personal secret can cause fatigue, anxiety, depression, and a disconnect to name a few. It may be healthier to share your secret for your own health. Sharing will also give a feeling of control and release.  Sharing your secret can lighten the load.

If you carry the weight of a secret, sharing your secret may far outweigh the benefits of keeping your secret hidden.

If, however, you are sworn to secrecy, honor your commitment to this individual.

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READY AND WILLING

Are you equipped and ready for the next phase of your life? 

Some people are in the mist of change and are content with where that change may lead them.  There are others that are content with where they are in life but change and transformation are inevitable as it is part of our learning experience.

Are you making changes with your life because what is in place no longer suits your evolutionary state? 

Are you being swept away by the swift current of life and moving in a whole new direction which seems to be out of your control? 

Ready and Willing

Sometimes life seems to dictate and other times we have a hand in what unfolds, but we always have control of our reactions to life and to our reaction to where life is taking us.

Attitude is foremost and when we are forced to make changes, our attitude will dictate our experience with this change.  Learn to be flexible. Humanity has come as far as it has because we are capable of adapting.

Nothing stays the same.  Change happens for a reason, whatever that reason may be. It is less stressful if we are able to go with the flow of life’s current rather than paddling against the current. 

We are not talking about giving up as it is important to keep working towards our goals but when life dictates a certain path, do not resist; adapt and be ready and willing to move forward.

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Holm Astrology not only offers Astrology charts but also offers individual intuitive readings or group parties. For more information, visit us at www.holmastrology.com/intuitive-readings  

Are you interested in learning Astrology? Our fall courses are now underway. Watch for announcements in late winter for registration for our spring courses. Visit www.holmastrology.com/astrology-classes for course details.

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