LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS

It seems long term relationships are far and few between. 

Long Term Relationships

During the course of a committed relationship, marriage or otherwise, there will be challenges.  The newness of a relationship only lasts so long and then wears off. The excitement begins to settle, and then the true “getting to know each other” actually begins. We become more comfortable in the relationship and our deeper personality traits now surface. This can be unsettling in some cases, and we can let little insignificant or large surprising traits irritate us.

We learn to adapt and accept our differences, or we can challenge and stress over these differences to the point that they may be deal breakers.

Some individuals will learn to adapt and are willing to make changes to themselves, while others may refuse to make any changes as they feel they should not have to change for someone else. 

In relationships, we cannot expect someone to change to suit us. We can only make changes ourselves, either in character, circumstance or attitude.

This can be where some relationships crumble while others gain momentum. At this point, due to acceptance some relationships actually become stronger as love, hard work and acceptance are the backbone of a relationship. There will always be times when the relationship experiences difficulties. The outside world influences everything it touches but if we recognize that the source of irritation is from outside the relationship, the bond can deepen.

For those individuals currently going through one of these phases, recognize that in most cases, a slight change of attitude can make a world of difference.  Acceptance, compassion and support for one another is essential. Most irritants are temporary. Remind yourself to review the circumstances and look at the influence of the events around you.  Illness, family, world situations, finances, worry, fear, anxiety and attitude must be taken into consideration.  These can have profound consequences on relationships. 

After reviewing outside circumstances, you likely will come to realize that your relationship is good but other parts of life may need some adjustments.

For those that are experiencing difficulties in their relationship and have been for some time, be sure to have clear communication. Seek counselling as a professional can offer advice that you may not have thought about. 

Long term relationships take hard work, perseverance, love and compassion. Do not let the stress of outside influences affect your relationships. Do the work needed. Your well-being and the well-being of your relationship is worth it!

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GIVE AND TAKE IN APPROPRIATE PROPORTIONS

Give and Take in Appropriate Proportions

It is important in all relationships (marriage, friendships and even in business) to have a balance of give and take. 

With maybe the exception of a business relationship, we need to feel loved not just needed.  A relationship is based on balance. When we love, we give unconditionally but over time if we feel we carry the weight of the relationship, conditions begin to materialize.

All relationships take effort and hard work from all parties involved.

As they say, “Rome wasn’t built in a day”. 

For many, in the beginning of a relationship, it is pure bliss. As time passes, we begin to show our true self and to see the other party more clearly.  It is only then that we can begin to build a solid foundation for the relationship.

Give and take in appropriate proportions, as this is the cornerstone to all relationships. It takes work to build a solid relationship where you feel loved and valued. Oh, but it is so worth the effort!

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FULL MOON TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE

The Full Moon total Lunar Eclipse is a big influence especially for those with their Sun, Moon or Ascendant aspecting the Pisces Full Moon which will be at 15°. 

Full Moon Total Lunar Eclipse

The Pisces Full Moon Lunar Eclipse occurs on September 7, 2025.  This could have profound effects on close emotional links.  Relationships are likely impacted, and in some cases, due to the link of the transiting North Node at 18° Pisces, which is conjunct to the Moon’s position, it can bring someone important into your life. This can be someone new or bring you closer to someone already a part of your life.

This potential relationship is often Karmic (although most important relationships are likely karmic). 

This can be a time of great transformations and is more emotional because of the Piscean influence. 

Lunar Eclipses often bring drama into your life, and it can also mean some type of ending taking hold.  Remember, you cannot move forward if you are holding on to the past.  Perhaps a relationship has run its course and no longer suits your evolutionary path. 

Your inner world will be quite heightened, including intuition.  Insight can be powerful, and you may now be pushing for growth especially in a personal direction.  Destiny is at hand, and it is time to let go of any old patterns that no longer suit you.  It is time to move forward because it is a harvest point in your life.  What you put into place earlier is now ready for harvest and what works for you now is what you should attend to, and what no longer works, needs to be disposed of.

Mercury while in transit is at 10° in Virgo during this lunar event and although out of orb, Mercury may still have an influence on your thinking process because of the powerful influence impacting us. 

Check your chart to confirm this is having impacting on your Natal Chart and if so, it will play an important role in decision making.  Do not act on impulse, although the Lunar eclipse often portrays itself in this manner. 

If you need healing in some manner, this can be the time for that to take hold.  Meditation techniques can play an important role in your life now as the channels are open and more accepting and easily directed.

The houses being impacted by this Lunar Eclipse will signify what areas of life are involved for you.  If you are not sure how this might play out in your life, a professional Astrologer can assist with deciphering its meaning and how to use its energies appropriately. 

The Full Moon total Lunar eclipse will likely influence relationships. Be ready for change, and in some cases, drama. Remember, change is a requirement in life.  Let of the old and welcome the new.

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