REACTIONS IN THE MOMENT

At times, we speak out of turn or say things that even before we finish the sentence, we wish we had not said.

Likely on some level, the words needed to be said. Perhaps, it was the best way, at least at that moment, to get your point across.  Often, when we leave things unsaid for an extended period, when we eventually convey our wishes or feelings, they are said in a less than desirable fashion.

Reactions in the Moment

Whatever has been said cannot be unsaid, and you must accept the repercussions of your actions or words.  Clarifying or explaining ourselves is a good idea and an apology is essential.

We can’t change what has been said or done in the past so, if for example, our words were cutting due to holding on to unshared feelings, there is a valuable lesson in this event.  Do not let feelings or preferences go unsaid.  It is much better to deal with them in a calm and controlled situation than to express them in the heat of the moment and then regret your expression or actions.

Reactions in the moment happen occasionally to everyone.  If, however, your reactions are continually uncontrolled perhaps a deeper dive into why is warranted.  Be honest with yourself, accept responsibility for your actions and make the necessary changes where changes are required, so that the next time you are confronted with events or the urge to react, you can take control of your actions in the moment and deal with them in a meaningful and productive manner.

Change what you can, speak up when necessary and then let go of the past. If the needed change does not come when you request it and it is essential, walk away.  Remove yourself from the situation if there is no hope for change. Be proactive in what you can control, particularly reactions in the moment!

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STARTS WITH ME

This post has nothing to do with me personally; it is about you starting with you. 

Starts With Me

You hold the key to your personal success story.  You are the one you can count on and the one to guide you through anything.  There is no one better equipped to handle any situation.  Even if you seek personal assistance, others plant a seed (one from a perspective you may not have considered), but it will be you that makes the decisions and takes the action to nurture that seed.  No one else controls your destiny even when it appears that way.

If someone has control over your decision making, it means that you have agreed to let that person take the reins.  Even if you are against what they are insisting upon, and you feel as though you have no say in the matter, it is you that has decided you have no say. 

If someone else rules over you then perhaps you need to make a stand or step away.  If you are afraid of that individual, perhaps you should remove yourself from their presences. Obtain assistance, if need be, to feel safe.

Make no mistake, you are in control. If you don’t believe this, it might be time to have a second look at what your mind is telling you and what you have decided to adhere too. 

If it is your mind controlling you (which it is), remind yourself that you are not a slave to your thoughts. You are the ones listening to the thoughts. Your thoughts are fickle.  They will adapt to whatever is appropriate for the moment.  Take quitting smoking for example.  Pay attention to the absurd excuses your mind will give you to make your think it is okay to just have one cigarette.

Be strong in whatever you want to commit to. Ignore that chatter and excuses your thoughts will throw at you. You are in control of your life if you decide to take control.  Reminder yourself, “it starts with me”!

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DESTROYER OF PEACE

We cannot emphasize enough the impact of our attitude on our life’s experience.  Life happens (both hard and heart-filled lessons) no exceptions.  Challenging lessons present themselves from time to time, and we can’t ignore them or persuade them to just disappear.  They are part of our life, and we must learn the lesson and deal with them accordingly. This is how we grow and mature.

We live in our own corner of the world within our family unit. This family unit may be blood related or a chosen family of friends.  We are influenced by what goes on around us and for some individuals, this influence can be overwhelming at times.  Then on top of what we are surrounded by, we have our own internal struggles. Some individuals cannot admit to these struggles or talk openly about them and others are quite open to sharing their emotional struggles. 

Destroyer of Peace

Our minds race back and forth each day making judgements and analyzing all that we are experiencing.  It would be interesting to see how many contradictory thoughts we experience in a day, never mind a year or a lifetime. 

Our mind will tell us whatever is convenient and productive to its thinking in the moment. There is constant and continual mental dialog. For many of us, because our mind has control over us, for every action and thought there is also a reaction. This is why we should continually remind ourselves that we are not our thoughts. We are the spectators listening to them. As a result, we can choose which thoughts to act upon and which ones we can allow to pass us by without owning them or reacting to them.

We can be swept away by life events from time to time. We tire because we are human, and humans make mistakes. These mistakes, however, are valuable learning tools.  We cannot change things once they have happened (such as our reactions) but we can regain control once we recognize our reaction and move forward accordingly. The lesson is to keep going and each time an event happens, your reactions will be less and less until one day, you can stop the reaction before it takes place.  

Life is in your hands; it always has been. 

Reaction, instead of controlled response, is a destroyer of peace. Will you start taking responsibility? Don’t be swept away by your mind’s chatter. Be the spectator to its babbling. Choose what to own and what to acknowledge and release.

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