IT IS NOT ON YOU
- Apr 7
- 2 min read
It is important to take ownership of our actions. In some circumstances, however, the actions of others directly influence those with little or no choice in the matter.
In many cases, it takes two to tango, so the saying goes. If it is two parties taking action or acting out, then both parties need to take responsibility for what has taken hold.
It is also important to realize that you act for yourself. It is just as important to recognize that it is not up to you to push someone else to make changes. They must make their own decisions to take appropriate actions. We cannot force others to make changes to themselves or corrections to their actions. It can be frustrating to watch someone close being hurtful towards others (including you) or themselves.
Sometimes, people shoulder the blame for things they did not do or had no control over. How often do we overthink events and struggle to come up with alternative actions we could have taken to change an outcome that is already in the past (an outcome we had no decision in creating)?
“If only I had made a phone call that day then Charlie (or some other loved one) may not have been in the car at that precise moment of impact” is a perfect example. The events of life are not yours to own.
It is not always on you but take ownership when it is. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and choices. Stop blaming yourself when it is not your fault. It’s not on you!
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